Since you asked for our opinions , if I were doing all the extra $$$ in paint color matching , I'd pick a brighter color like Aqua Blue to really show it off. Meteor Grey is a nice color but it might look to the casual eye like the std black ABS plastic on the exterior bits and too much like the grey painted plastic on the steering wheel hub,center console,etc.

I'd also add the Ipod interface and the voice control for the PCM if you are spending so much anyway. It's so much easier to speak a NAV command then dialing it in when moving.