I think you've got it just as bad as I do! My car is supposed to arrive any day now! I can't wait either!! Thanks for the comprehensive checklist! Mine was nowhere near yours.

1. make sure the car isn't damaged.
2. no shipping blocks
3. check to see everything is the way you wanted it
4. pay/final paperwork
5. set up insurance

small things:

1. have them set the door locks to your liking
2. clear side markers (should be free)
3. license plate frame to replace the dealer's (should be free)
4. keychain (should be free)
5. bumperplugs! (mine came with a set, if yours doesnt, bumperplugs.com)

Ask for a Vehicle Analysis log printout. This will more info than you know what to do with, expect 8 or 9 pages.
Ask for a ECU print out to ensure that the engine has not been on the rev limiter in stage 1 and exceeded it in stage 2 before you take delivery.
-Stage 1 is someone not shifting fast enough to avoid the rev limiter and encountering the fuel cutoff.
-Stage 2 is someone downshifting to the wrong gear and physically over-reving the motor.

Leave the geometry until the car has a few miles on it to allow everything to settle.