People will always be critical of unique products and people--it's the herd phenomenon. If you like a Cayenne, get another one in the future.
From a different point of view, when I was driving in Germany for two weeks in the spring, It seemed that every car was a black Audi or BMW--SUVs, sedans, wagons. I was proud of my Cayenne being apart from the conforming herd. You are a talented car enthusiast RC, go for it and forget about others' views...