Nitrogen, because it leaks out more slowly, is good for people like my wife and mother. They never think about tire pressure; they only add air when the tires look flat.
That stuff about better gas mileage ONLY applies to people who have a tendency to neglect their tire pressure.
That safety thing ONLY applies to people who neglect their tire air pressure.
That anti oxidation only applies to car museums and people who never drive their cars.
Nitrogen is good for service stations who get people to keep coming back for more nitrogen: they can find something "wrong" with the car that needs fixing.
Water inside the wheel/tire? NEVER had a problem with that in about 120 years of car ownership (multiple cars owned at one time).
The heat transfer thing applies only to serious race cars. The freezing water thing applies to commercial aircraft. The specialized characteristics of nitrogen-filled tires applies to specialized uses. In _my_ world "specialized use" would be for the dummies who can't keep air in their tires.
So for the average car guy, especially one with a TPMS equipped car, nitrogen is hogwash.
Nitrogen: introduce a product on a new market and invent why people _need_ it.