I am considering ordering a Boxster S with the following:

Would appreciate any comments or suggestions:

Midnight Blue (or GT Silver with Cocoa or Grey-worth the extra?)
Brown Natural Full Leather (or Grey Full Leather??)
PCM
Thicker three-spoke sports steering wheel in smooth leather
Sport Shifter (?)
Black Top
Re the 19 inch Carrera Clasic wheels-is this just a matter of how it looks? Is there any handling advantage to 19 inch wheels?
Active suspension management. (Is this what gives you the "sport" button to stiffen the suspension?
Sport Chrono-(if this gives you something beyond the clock)
Automatic climate control
Carbon package (?)
Porsche Communication Management (primarily because I understand this is the only way to get ability to play mp3s on the '06s)
Remote Six disc changer. (with the possibility of hooking up a Dension ice-link/ipod-Do you need the changer to do this?)
Heated Seats.
Would like to get carpet in black (but one salesman says they cannot order deviating carpet anymore?)

Appreciate any suggestions.