My deepest sympathy to both family's.
Dying so young , and leaving your lovedones so early is almost unbelievable...
It's too hard to anyone to really feel what the family's will be missing...
My father in law is fighting his last days, weeks now, he's 85 and very ill.Every day we see him slipping away a little bit more, we pray and hope that he will suffer not too much pain.
Seeing him suffer we said to eachother, let's hope we will die quick, without pain...
Only yesterday I said to my wife, i'd rather die, driving my dear porsche than having to go the way her father suffers...
Coming home last night I read the message about Ben...
All of a sudden I got very cold and realised the words i spoke just therefore...
No, this isn't the right way to leave your family at all...
The pain for all of them, not having had the chance to say goodbye , must be horrible...
May Ben and his friend rest in peace and let's hope their family's have a lot of people to support them...
condoleances to all, from belgium